Dear Grizzly: Dennis is the menace when it comes to marriage
I could do without the sex if I had his affection.
DEAR GRIZZLY: I am a 68-year-old widow, and I care very much for a 68-year-old divorced gentleman. We don’t want to get married because it would upset our families, and there also are financial considerations against it.
Dennis and I both feel a strong sexual need, but his religious beliefs say it is morally wrong to have sex outside of marriage. I could do without the sex if I had his affection. However, he is incapable of showing affection without it leading to sex, so he wants us just to be good friends. I need to be held and loved. Is there any answer?
-- LONELY AND FRUSTRATED
DEAR HORNY AND FRUSTRATED: That you and Dennis could find love and romance in the autumn of your life is so [sniff] beautiful, though the image of you two senior citizen geezers bumping uglies in a wrinkle-fest totally creeps me out. When I was younger, I thought sex after sixty was like time-travel… sure, in theory it is possible, but no one really expects it to happen. Now that I too am in my sixties, even thinking about it gives me a headache… time-travel, that is. Sex after sixty just makes me sweaty and dizzy. Technically, sex outside of marriage is morally wrong but at your age that becomes as serious as littering or going over the speed limit. If I were Dennis, I wouldn’t be turning down and geriatric goings on; no telling how long you’re going to live, but that’s me.
By the way, who cares what your family thinks. Trust me, all they are worried about is when you drop dead, all the money would end up going to Mr. Wrinkle Muffin. If you’ve found someone at sixty-eight that is willing to see you naked, that’s what I call true love!
Signed: Grizzly ‘good time; Gus
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